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Beyond Behaviors: Greg Comings on Listening to What Your Child Is Really Saying
Michigan, US, 18th September 2025, ZEX PR WIRE, Every parent faces moments when their child’s actions leave them puzzled, meltdowns before school, slammed doors, or sudden silence over dinner. While it can be tempting to focus on stopping the behavior, Greg Comings, a licensed child psychologist, encourages parents to pause and consider: What if these moments are really signals, not just missteps? Looking deeper can reveal important clues about your child’s feelings and needs, opening doors to stronger connection and understanding.According to licensed child psychologist Greg Comings, every action a child takes has a story behind it. For over 15 years, he has helped families shift their perspective from managing misbehavior to understanding the needs driving it. By uncovering the “why,” parents can move beyond a cycle of conflict and build a more compassionate, effective, and connected relationship with their children.
“Behavior is communication,” Greg Comings explains. “A child who is acting out isn’t trying to be ‘bad.’ They are often communicating a feeling they don’t have the words for, like ‘I’m overwhelmed,’ ‘I feel disconnected,’ or ‘I don’t feel safe.’” This shift in mindset is the first step toward transforming the parent-child dynamic from one of control to one of connection.
The Problem with a Behavior-First Approach
Focusing solely on correcting a child’s behavior can feel like playing a constant game of whack-a-mole. You address one issue, and another one pops up. This approach often fails to resolve the root cause, leading to exhaustion for parents and leaving children feeling misunderstood. When a child’s actions are met only with discipline or frustration, they may learn to suppress their feelings, but the underlying need remains unmet.
“When we jump straight to consequences, we miss a critical opportunity to teach,” says Comings. “We inadvertently send the message that their feelings are the problem, rather than the way they’re expressing them.” This can create a wedge between parent and child, making it harder for the child to come to you with problems in the future. The real goal isn’t just to stop a tantrum; it’s to teach a child how to handle big emotions in a healthier way.
Understanding the “why” allows parents to respond with empathy and guidance instead of immediate punishment. This doesn’t mean there are no consequences for poor choices. It means that the response is rooted in teaching and connection, not just correction.
How to Get Curious and Find the “Why”
Becoming a behavioral detective for your own child requires patience and practice. It starts with pausing before you react and asking yourself a few key questions. Greg Comings suggests parents get curious about the context surrounding the behavior.
Look for Patterns and Triggers
Is the difficult behavior happening at a specific time of day? Is it right before bed when your child is tired, or during transitions between activities? Children, especially younger ones, thrive on predictability and can become dysregulated when routines are disrupted.
“Think like a scientist gathering data,” Comings advises. “Does your child melt down after a long day at school? Maybe they are overstimulated. Do they get defiant when asked to do homework? Perhaps they feel insecure about the material.” Noting these patterns can provide valuable clues about what your child is experiencing internally.
Consider Their Developmental Stage
A toddler grabbing a toy from another child is not malicious; they are learning about possession and have limited impulse control. A teenager pushing back on rules isn’t just being defiant; they are navigating the natural and necessary process of forming their own identity.
Understanding what is developmentally appropriate can help you frame their behavior in a more accurate light. It allows you to set realistic expectations and respond with guidance that matches their cognitive and emotional abilities.
Ask Open-Ended Questions
Instead of asking, “Why did you do that?”, a question that often puts kids on the defensive, try a gentler approach. Use observations to open up a conversation.
Comings suggests phrases like:
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“I noticed you got really quiet when we started talking about the party. What’s on your mind?”
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“You seem to have a lot of energy right now. What does your body feel like doing?”
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“That was a big reaction. It looked like you were feeling angry. Is that right?”
This technique, which helps children label their feelings, is a core component of building emotional intelligence. When a child can name what they are feeling, it becomes less overwhelming and easier to manage.
Building Connection Through Evidence-Based Practices
Greg Comings utilizes several evidence-based therapeutic methods in his practice that parents can adapt for use at home. These strategies are designed to strengthen the parent-child bond and give children the tools to manage their emotions effectively.
The Power of Play Therapy
For younger children, play is their most natural form of communication. It’s how they process their world, work through anxieties, and express feelings they can’t verbalize. Parents don’t need to be therapists to use the principles of play at home.
“Set aside 15-20 minutes of dedicated, child-led playtime,” Greg Comings recommends. “Put your phone away, sit on the floor, and let your child direct the activity. This simple act sends a powerful message: ‘You are important to me, and I want to be in your world.’” During this time, you can observe the themes in their play, which often reflect what’s on their mind.
Principles of Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)
PCIT is a highly effective therapy that involves coaching parents in real-time to improve their interactions with their child. One of its core skills is giving positive, specific praise for desired behaviors.
Instead of a generic “Good job,” try being more descriptive. For example, “I love how you shared your blocks with your sister,” or “Thank you for putting your shoes on right when I asked.” This reinforces the positive behavior and shows your child that you are paying attention to their efforts. This focus on positive reinforcement builds their self-esteem and makes them more likely to cooperate.
From Correction to Connection: The Takeaway
Understanding the “why” behind your child’s behavior is a journey, not a destination. There will still be challenging days and difficult moments. However, by leading with curiosity and empathy, you can transform those challenges into opportunities for growth and connection.
“The goal is not to have a perfectly behaved child, but to raise an emotionally resilient one who knows they have a safe place to land when things get tough,” Greg Comings concludes. When you prioritize understanding the person behind the behavior, you are not just managing a moment, you are building a relationship that will last a lifetime.
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Nashville, Tennessee, 20th March 2026, ZEX PR WIRE, Families across Music City are invited to celebrate Easter together as the Church of Scientology Nashville hosts a festive community Easter Egg Hunt on Sunday, April 5, beginning at 11:00 a.m.
The event is open to all and designed as a joyful morning where children can dash, discover, and delight in a classic Easter tradition—hunting for colorful eggs hidden across the grounds. With special surprises tucked among the eggs, every child will have the chance to share in the excitement.
In addition to the egg hunt, families can enjoy a variety of activities throughout the morning, creating a lively and welcoming atmosphere for guests of all ages. The event is part of the Church’s ongoing effort to bring the community together through family-friendly celebrations that foster connection, goodwill, and fun.
The Church of Scientology Nashville has become a gathering place for community events and cultural celebrations throughout the year, welcoming neighbors from all walks of life. From seasonal festivities to open houses and humanitarian initiatives, the Church provides a space where individuals and families can come together in a spirit of unity and shared purpose.
“Our goal is simply to create a place where families can enjoy time together and build lasting memories,” said a representative of the Church. “Events like this Easter egg hunt are about bringing people together and celebrating the values we all share—joy, community, and kindness.”
The Easter Egg Hunt will take place at the Church of Scientology Nashville, located at 1130 8th Avenue South. Admission is free, and all are welcome to attend.
For more information about this event or other upcoming activities, visit the Church of Scientology Nashville or stop by for a visit.
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Anthony Helinski, a Salem, New Hampshire educator and engineer, argues that practical, hands-on instruction produces more durable outcomes than abstract curriculum alone.
The Problem With Learning That Stays on Paper
New Hampshire, US, 20th March 2026, ZEX PR WIRE, After seven years teaching science and reading at Lawrence Public Schools in Lawrence, Massachusetts, Anthony Helinski developed a clear view of what separates students who retain information from those who do not. Inquiry-based learning, hands-on problem solving, and real-world application consistently outperformed passive instruction. The students who built things, tested things, and handled real materials in the classroom were the students who came back to class asking questions.
Helinski’s method was not accidental. It was the result of deliberate design, informed by his training in universal design for learning and his instinct for matching instruction to the learner rather than the learner to the instruction.
What Hands-On Learning Actually Requires
Practical instruction requires investment, and Helinski has never been reluctant to make that case. During his time in Andover, Massachusetts as an engineering and design teacher, he ran a civil engineering club and a woodworking club after school hours. He designed lessons around robotics, rocketry, and ergonomics. He created the conditions for students to encounter real problems and work toward real solutions.
The same philosophy informed his later work in the utility sector, where he developed onboarding and operator qualifications curriculum for Progressive Pipeline Management, a specialized pipelining company serving major east coast gas utilities. The principles carried over. Clear objectives, tested methods, iterative improvement.
Four Trends Shaping How People Learn in 2026
In a piece recently published by Barchart, Helinski outlined key shifts in how learning, work, and creation are evolving. His perspective draws on both classroom experience and field engineering, producing analysis grounded in practice rather than theory.
Helinski has also been featured in Brainz Magazine and AccessNewswire discussing the importance of returning to practical problem-solving frameworks in educational settings. His view is consistent: learning that cannot be applied has limited value, and the gap between academic instruction and real-world competency is a structural problem worth addressing directly.
What Educators and Learners Can Do Right Now
Helinski’s recommendation is to begin with the simplest version of hands-on engagement available in your current environment. Identify one concept in your curriculum or training program that could be demonstrated physically rather than described verbally. Build the demonstration before refining it. Test whether understanding improves. Iterate from there.
The engineering design process does not require expensive equipment. It requires a clear question, a method for testing answers, and a willingness to revise based on what you learn.
Take one concept you currently teach or train abstractly and find a way to make it physical this week. Note the difference in engagement and ask whether the outcome improved.
About Anthony Helinski
Anthony Helinski is a Salem, New Hampshire-based educator, project engineer, and woodworking entrepreneur. He holds two master’s degrees from Lesley University and spent seven years teaching science and reading at Lawrence Public Schools before transitioning to engineering design instruction and gas utilities project management. He is the founder of Helinski Custom Woodworking and can be reached through anthonyhelinski.com.
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TMR Roof Plumber Mornington Delivers Best Roof Plumbing and Repair Services Across the Mornington Peninsula
Australia, 20th Mar 2026 – Homeowners and businesses across the Mornington Peninsula now have a dependable partner for all roofing needs with TMR Roof Plumber Mornington, a leading provider of professional roof plumbing and repair services. Known for its commitment to quality workmanship, fast response times, and customer satisfaction, the company continues to set a high standard for roofing solutions in the region.
Conveniently located at 90 Main St, Mornington, VIC 3931, TMR Roof Plumber Mornington has built a strong reputation as a go-to roof plumber mornington expert. Whether it’s a minor leak, major storm damage, or a complete roof restoration, the team brings years of hands-on experience and industry knowledge to every project.
Roofing issues can arise unexpectedly, often leading to costly damage if left unaddressed. TMR Roof Plumber Mornington understands the urgency of such situations and provides prompt, reliable services to ensure properties remain safe and protected. Specializing in roof repairs mornington, the company offers tailored solutions designed to extend the lifespan of roofs while maintaining structural integrity and aesthetic appeal.
“Our mission is to provide top-quality roofing services that customers can rely on,” said a spokesperson for TMR Roof Plumber Mornington. “We take pride in delivering workmanship that not only meets but exceeds expectations, ensuring long-term peace of mind for our clients.”
Serving both residential and commercial clients, the company’s comprehensive range of services includes leak detection, gutter installation and maintenance, flashing repairs, roof restorations, and more. Their expertise in roof repairs mornington peninsula ensures that properties across the region are well-equipped to handle Australia’s unpredictable weather conditions.
What sets TMR Roof Plumber Mornington apart is its customer-first approach. Every project begins with a thorough inspection, followed by clear communication and transparent pricing. Clients are kept informed throughout the process, ensuring confidence and satisfaction from start to finish.
In addition to repairs, the company is also recognized as a trusted roof plumber mornington peninsula, offering expert roof plumbing solutions that enhance drainage, prevent water damage, and improve overall roof performance. By using high-quality materials and proven techniques, the team ensures durable and efficient results.
Energy efficiency is another key focus for the company. With rising energy costs, proper insulation has become more important than ever. TMR Roof Plumber Mornington provides professional roof insulation mornington peninsula services, helping property owners improve thermal efficiency, reduce energy bills, and create more comfortable indoor environments year-round.
As a locally owned and operated business, TMR Roof Plumber Mornington understands the unique needs of the Mornington Peninsula community. Their deep knowledge of local building styles and environmental conditions allows them to deliver customized solutions that stand the test of time.
The company’s dedication to excellence is reflected in its growing base of satisfied customers and positive word-of-mouth referrals. By consistently delivering high-quality results, TMR Roof Plumber Mornington has established itself as a trusted name in the roofing industry.
About TMR Roof Plumber Mornington
TMR Roof Plumber Mornington is a professional roofing company based in Mornington, Victoria, specializing in roof plumbing, maintenance, and repair services. With a strong focus on quality, reliability, and customer satisfaction, the company serves residential and commercial clients throughout the Mornington Peninsula. Their team of skilled and experienced professionals is committed to delivering durable, cost-effective solutions tailored to each client’s needs. From emergency repairs to complete roof restorations and insulation services, TMR Roof Plumber Mornington continues to be a trusted choice for dependable roofing solutions.
For those seeking reliable and professional roofing services, TMR Roof Plumber Mornington offers a seamless experience backed by expertise, integrity, and a commitment to customer satisfaction.
To learn more about their services or to request a quote, visit https://roofplumbermornington.com.au/ or contact the team directly.
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